To give a small gift or to do something special for someone for no other reason than “Just Because”, usually means you’re trying to show someone that they mean something to you or you just want to do something special for someone that means something to you. It’s a small random act of kindness to let the other person know you got them in mind or simply you just want to make them smile or happy.
The key to doing these surprises, is to not do them all the time though. You have to space out the time of when you do this and not get into the habit of buying a gift or doing something everyday or week because after a while, it becomes routine and not special anymore.
Make it so that it’s an unexpected surprise and space out the times you surprise her so that each time that you do choose to do it, she’s genuinely surprised.
There truly is no right or wrong time to do this but try not to do something around the time of her birthday, Christmas time, Anniversary, or any other special dates or holidays. In those cases were you do want to do something special around those days, just hold off a few more days, and make it apart of that specific day’s gift or celebration.
Little things such as getting her a small item she’s been talking about for a while or getting a CD she’s been waiting for to come out are perfect little just because things you can do from time to time. Surprise dinner dates are always perfect any night of the week and flowers are perfect any day also.
For more ideas of what to do when you want to just surprise her for no reason, please see our Small Ideas and Bigger Ideas in our “Just Because” section of MakingHerDay.com.
