Advice/FAQ’s

Everyone can use a little advice from time to time to help out in situations you’re not sure about or never been through before. Sometimes you can rely on friends or family members for good old advice to steer you in the right direction, and other times, you learn by just trying different things on your own.

In our “Advice and Frequently Asked Questions” section, maybe our bits of advice or knowledge can help you out with your relationships or things you may be thinking about and wondering.

We’ll list questions that usually pop up and answer them with our best opinions, answers, and choices.  We’ll also have a section on this page where we’ll be posting articles dealing with Relationships, Love, Women, and anything else that can help someone out in their relationships or what they might be going through in their life at the moment.  Just see our “Articles” page under our Advice/FAQs drop down menu.

Commonly Asked Questions

Dating Advice & QuestionsPlaces To Go & Things To Do
How To Get Her AttentionHow/When To Surprise Her
What To Do For Different HolidaysWhat To Do For Her Birthday
What To Do For Your AnniversaryWhat To Do For Mother’s Day
Online Dating HelpWhich Type of Flowers Should I Buy?
When is a good time to get her flowers?We just had an argument, what do I do?
Should I move in with her?How can I show her I love her?
Does she love me?Am I ready to propose to her?
How do I pick out a good ring?How should I propose to her?
She’s pregnant, what do I do now?

If their were any questions that you have, that you don’t see answered here, please let us know that way we can take your question(s) into consideration and try to answer it.  If we can, we’ll email you back our opinions to your question(s) and if possible, add it to our list of questions on our Advice/FAQ’s section.

Email us at feedback@makingherday.com.

Dating Advice & Questions
See our “Dating Advice” page and also our entire “Dating” section for advice, frequently asked questions, and overall help with what to do while you’re in a relationship.

Places to Go & Things to Do
In our Ideas section, you’ll find that our “Places to Go” page will have plenty of options for you to try and experience for different occasions and seasons.

How to Get Her Attention
We have an entire section based on getting someone’s attention.  Whether it’s from “online dating” or “in person” we have information and tips to help increase your chances.  Please check our “Get Her Attention” section for more information.

How or When to Surprise Her
Our “Just Because” section is dedicated to helping you do little or big surprises for her.  It will help you on choosing the best time to surprise her and also give you some ideas of what to surprise her with.

What to Do For Different Holidays
Our “Holidays” section can help you with ideas and options of what to do on holidays like “Christmas“, “Valentine’s Day“, July 4th“, “Easter“, and even “Cinco De Mayo”.  Check out each of our pages in the “Holidays” section and make this year’s holidays more special.

What to Do For Her Birthday
We have a complete Birthday Checklist in our “Birthday” page of our “Special Days” section.  The checklist will help you make sure you don’t miss or forget anything to make her birthday more special this year.

What to Do For Your Anniversary
Our “Anniversaries” page has a lot of information on what to do for your Anniversary.  We’ll list ideas and gift options there and also in our “Gift Ideas” page also.

What to Do For Mother’s Day
Our “Mother’s Day” page can help you with the key things to do for Mother’s Day for anyone in your life that is a mother.

Online Dating Help
Visit our “Get Her Attention” page on “Online Dating” for help in getting the most out of your profile and increasing the possibilities of getting responses from the women you’re interested in.

Which Type of Flowers Should I Buy?
If your partner loves a particular type of flower, always feel free to buy that flower for her on special occasions or when you want to surprise her for no reason more that to see her smile.  What you can also do is buy that particular flower and surround it with roses or other flowers that symbolize or mean something to you.

If she doesn’t have a favorite flower, we have a listing of different types of flowers and what their meanings are behind them.  Look for the flower that means or expresses you’re feelings or thoughts of her or you can pick up the flower you think is the best.  Either way you can’t go wrong.  Order them and have them delivered or go pick them up and give them to her the next time you see her.

See our “Buying Flowers” page in our “Ideas” section for help on picking the right flowers.

When is a good time to get her flowers?
Honestly, anytime is a good time to get her flowers.  If there was a wrong time to get her flowers we’d say it would be if you got her flowers recently, you’ll probably want to wait a few days or weeks before getting her flowers again.

Space out the time that you get her flowers to keep them special.  If you give her flowers all the time, they’ll lose their “effect”.  Holidays, Birthdays, Anniversaries, and special days between you and her are perfect days for them but on days she’s not expecting anything at all can be better.

We just had an argument, what do I do?
In our opinion, the best thing to do is to take a little time-out for yourself and her to let that anger or frustration calm down a bit.  This will give you both a chance to think reasonably, go over what caused the argument, and try to figure out a way you can meet in the middle of your disagreement or at the least reach an understanding of each other’s position in the argument.   Remember, you’re two different people and you won’t always think or feel the same about everything.

Once you’ve had a chance to calm and reflect, go up to her and apologize for the argument and try to work it out between the two of you, even if you feel you’re not at fault.  Working together and being together as a couple means sometimes you’re gonna have to “bite the bullet” to get past things and move forward.  Hopefully you can both come to an agreement or at least an understanding of each other a little more and continue growing as a couple.

Should I move in with her?
Unfortunately, this is a question that really no one can answer but you.  What we can suggest is that you think about it for a few and decide for yourself if you’re ready to move in with her.  If you find that you’ve been with her for a long enough time to know you’ll feel comfortable living with her, then go for it.

Just make sure to have a good conversation about it with her when you ask her to move in.  Usually moving in together is a pretty serious step in the relationship so make sure you’re both ready for that and willing to do it.

If you find that you know you can’t see yourself with this person or don’t like the way they do certain things, those are “signs” to look for to NOT move in with the person.  Also seeing the way they live in their own homes or places are clues as to how they’ll be when living with you.

How can I show her I love her?
It’s easy to say “I love you” to someone but to actually show the love you have for someone is a bit different.  The best way we can think of to show your love isn’t by buying her something or spending money on her, but it’s by being there for her when she needs you the most.  Making her feel confident that you’ll always be there when she needs you and even when she doesn’t, will let her know she’s loved.

Be her support and help her out with anything she needs.  Be her go to person when she needs someone to talk to about work or that person she goes to when she wants to vent about anything.  By being there, it’ll show her that you’re there for her and love her enough to always be there when she needs.

Other ways of showing your love is by doing little things here and there.  If you’re living together, make sure to give her a kiss before leaving in the morning.  Take her out from time to time and tell her she’s beautiful and that you love her.  Other than that, just treat her like the beautiful love that she is and work together.

Does she love me?
Well the only way to know for sure is if she says she does or to ask her, but more importantly, do you feel like she does?  Love is something that can’t be described and is one of those things that just happens or happens in time.  It’s a feeling that you get and when you know you’re in love, you just know it.

If you really need to know though, have an easy going conversation about your relationship and ask her how she feels about you.  Hopefully by the end of the conversation, you’ll have an answer.

Am I ready to propose to her?
This depends on how you feel about the woman you’re with and where you’re at in your life and relationship.  Ask yourself these questions:

1)      Are “you” ready to be married?
2)      Can you see yourself with her for the rest of your life?
3)      Do you feel like she’s the right person for you?

If you answered no to any of those questions, take your time to think about your relationship and hold off on proposing until you can say yes to all three of those questions.  If you answered yes to all those questions, you’re heading in the right direction to propose.  Just make sure things feel right to you and you can’t wait to say I’d love for her to be my wife.

How do I pick out a good ring?
We got in a few questions about rings and proposing so we decided to make a page dedicated to it.  Please check our “Picking the Right Ring” section in our “Proposing Ideas” page.

How should I propose to her?
Since we received a few emails regarding proposing, we decided to make a page dedicated to proposing.  Please see our “Proposing Ideas” page in our “Ideas” section.

She’s pregnant, what do I do now?
First and foremost…..Congratulations!  I hope this is good news for you and you’re excited as you should be.  Our best suggestions to you is for you to continue being the man that you are to her, start getting some information and knowledge about pregnancy, and learn what to kind of expect.

With so many books and access to information on the internet, you can definitely find little guides and steps to take during this time.  Get together with your wife/girlfriend and go over things early like the way you’re going to raise your child and what you see for the future.  Also make an appointment together with a doctor to get as much info as possible.

Try working things out now so that when your child is born, you already have a good idea of where you’re going ahead of time.